Terrorizing Fear!

Terrorizing fear.

So here we are today on this new Monday and a post title that screams fear. Well though Halloween is coming up it has nothing to do with ghost and ghouls but with the fear inside our souls and hearts. Might be provocative so be warned.

Fear, what does it mean, is it enough to condemn people to the outskirts of a town. Place them in labelled boxes so you know what to avoid. Who feeds that fear. Who taught you to fear these things, objects or even feelings, emotions and simple words. And let face it, it goes back centuries on times.

Fear the emotion that tells you to flee or fight for anything that seems a threat to you. And that is where we all go wrong. Sure there will be things to be afraid of. But when looking at the simple things, we are afraid of the silliest things. Fear also creates hatred.

So who teaches us what to fear and label it as something to avoid. Well it does start at home with parents and or siblings. A mum afraid of a mouse could teach a child to fear mousse as well. Same goes with spiders. It ends up being education to teach children what to fear. I mean in Texas I think it is wise to tell children that rattle snakes are not the pleasant kind of animal to come across and should be handled accordingly. Australia has some animals like that to including a small spider if my memory serves me right. These animal can kill.

Yes it is us who teaches the kids what to fear, and we have been taught by our parents and so on, and that goes back centuries. It is not always written in our DNA as with some animals to automatically fear a other animal.
This makes us come to, who feeds that fear. Well media, films, and of course people around us. That is only when we talking animals or nature.

Now what about fearing people. Yes we do. It is the reason why we fight and rage wars. Always about who is better. A better colour, religion or even sexuality. But who says that. Why are we so afraid of a different colour, or religion or even sexuality. It is not going to kill us like a bite of a spider. Or a claw of a bear. Why do people preach hat some of these things mentioned are to be feared.

Do they even know where it comes from, the hatred or fear of differences. Does the KKK know America was a country occupied by Indians, coloured people if you will. So why do they fear/hate the coloured and say America belongs to the white. They sure do not know their history very well if you ask me.
Church is such an institute as well. And sorry if it offends you I tried religions and came to a conclusion that some still spread fear and thus hate. For no reason at all. Catholics saying homosexuality is wrong, are condemning those people like they done in their bible with lepers. Why they fear these people they do no harm. Well Christ embraced them Why can’t a Catholic or Christian. And what is it with the Islam one book saying love all and another book kills the unbelievers. How contradicting.

Embrace of differences.

So what do we fear, why do fear and create hate towards those fears. When e talking about people who mean no harm, or small animals who do not hurt you .What is so gross that it makes you want to flee away or kill it with a passion.
Do we truly fear or is just taught to us. There is a big difference between them. Because that what is taught has usually been taught for centuries and is based on a difference. As small as a colour or belief.

Rethink why you fear what you fear, And is it truly something to fear or even hate.
Open you arms and heart to people around us some things are not to be feared. Stop labelling and sorting on colour, sexuality or length of hair, or even religion. It only teaches to fear differences which does not matter.
No need to fear this fat grey haired ex-addict bastard I only bite if you ask me to. Now smile it makes us all equal.

Best wishes
Ranting Crow

Science vs. Religion

Or could they get along?

A post that will provoke but I just want you to think.

So yesterday something happened and got me thinking. On why somethings are still looked at through a scientific eye. I was wrong yesterday to look like that as well. And for that I apologize.

But on with the point of this post. It is about being Gay or Lesbian or straight. Not talking about hotero (I prefer Hotero over bisexuality) since that is mostly a choice if you ask me. Why are there still people looking at it as if they want to scientifically find the answer why a gay or lesbians falls for the same sex. Are they still looking at it as an illness like some bible fanatics, I said some. Who also belief it can be reformed. Are those scientists looking for a so called cure as well. I hate to think so that it is. Does it matter so much why these people feel the way they feel.

Sure we also question the fact if God or how ever you call him/her exists. Simplest question ever asked is does he exist and what proof do you have.
But your thoughts are not treated as a decease or illness. And sure reformers lie waiting for us all. Trying to change us into believing what they believe. We do not say your religion is something that can be cured. So why do some still talk about it as if Homosexuality is an illness.

All we can do is question the fact if he/she does exist. And respect the answer given by any person we ask. Yes or no or maybe a occasional maybe or even there is something just do not know what to call it.
Can we not do the same with our fellow humans who love the same sex. What ever their answer at least respect them for the answer given.

Now science always tries to make sense of things and I am a science freak, but I now know there are questions that will stay unanswered or get answered but will be used for wrong reasons and that is a concern. How much do we then respect a human life and their choices. I love finding answers,but it also leads to knew questions. how far will we go.
It is just going to start a fight between who is right or even better. And wars have started for less then a religious difference.

As a great man once said. Can’t we all just get along.
Should we not respect ones beliefs, right or wrong in order to create a better world.
Lets stop judging on differences. Stop being afraid of differences. Have we not learned enough from our history.

So can science and religion go along, yes they can if they respect each other and they are not used for the wrong ends or as an excuse to start another fight. Let us start to give the example and open our heart for everybody what ever their beliefs.

Best wishes
Ranting Grow

NEWS FLASH:  Just heard on the radio, today is National coming out day, here in the Netherlands a question was asked to the Gay and Lesbian community if they were happy at work. Most are and most also openly talk about being a Gay or Lesbian. It is the Hotero that usually is afraid to come out, most likely to be accused of being greedy and wanting it both ways.

Evolutions revolution!

Oh yeah we are going Darwinian today and look at evolution. Yesterday I said if God does exist he screwed us men pretty bad giving all good feature to women. So how cruel was evolution on us? Well I think evolution has made us look better but I do not think we are there yet. And my idea will cause a riot or I m going to be called insane. But thing is, ones crazy fantasy is another mans research. And let you ask questions like; What if? All great ideas come forth from a mind who dares to question the known knowledge.

So there you have it, me going crazy on you, with a pinch of humor. So think of it as you want to. Shoot it all down in the comments, or me, I will not duck for what ever you throw at me. I take it like a man.

Okay, examples are always welcome an I mentioned one in a previous post. Filmmakers made the movie ‘Idiocracy”. A dumb ass movie about our possible future. Now it all sounds crazy but how real or how close did they come to reality. How stupid will we become. There are already studies going on about that. People researching if we are getting dumber. And so far they say we learn more. Learn to operate more, read tablets and phones. But knowing less. Wait, know less? Yes, apparently we do not remember as much as we used to. Forgetting facts or even common grammar. Is it because we read less maybe?

That was an example of what fantasy can create, and yet it also created research to that very idea we are getting dumber.

Another is more of a cartoon, but how far off would they have been of on the evolution shown. Knowing we are very much controlled or sorry, i meant used or even addicted to our screens. Yes I am talking about the Disney ‘Wall-E’. Where the humans are being shot into space and grow bigger and bigger because their screen helps them connect to everyone else and there is no need to move, because all is controlled by our helping hands, the robots. How lazy are we getting for real. We already have machines that do our mopping and vacuuming or mow the lawn. Shopping is done on the sofa through a screen and delivered at your door. Makes you wonder how much of a fantasy it is.

So where does my crazy idea come from, well from what I wrote yesterday really and the issues that are going on at hand with the homosexual dislike around the world. It just made me wonder and think. And again it may sound crazy but I am okay with that, It is what they call an hypothesis. A probable cause of a phenomenon. And I do not have any scientific ground to stand on, but somehow made sense. Just like some of these examples that people think of as being silly. At least we can create fantasies and share them as I am doing now.

So my idea was that if it took us millions of years to get where we are now, why we wouldn’t have evolved any further. Or could it be we are evolving but just looking at it wrong. Could it be we are looking for new ways of impregnating or giving birth. We have been doing the same for millions of years. And evolution is the ability to change to adept to your surroundings. To stick with layman terms.
Now I already mentioned the homosexual movement. Where it began we are not sure, but what if…?

Yes.

What if they are the embodiment of a new step within the  evolution ladder, now that would cause a revolution, no doubt.
Sound crazy? Well why? What would be wrong if they were able to get pregnant somehow and give birth in way evolution is still working out. Now i cannot proof any of these ideas, maybe because we aren’t far enough in time yet to understand. It took us millions of years to loose all our hair and walk up straight.
So how real could it all be, where do we stand in our evolution?

There you have it ladies and gentleman, an idea of mine concerning evolution hypothesis. It might be the key for sharing or getting rid of the monthly issues we sometimes struggle with.

Crazy , right? But healthy to be able to even fantasize and think about what ever comes to mind. And might make some sense as well.

Best wishes
and call me cazy
Ranting Crow

The naked truth.

A saying that can be looked at in more than one way and beautiful in every way you look at it. Well that is what I think.
Be it about the truth or just being naked both give a feeling of freedom. Nothing that holds you down. Okay in some cases you are kept down. But that is another way of seeing it.
I came to this post thanks to the way we always try to dress things up to be more pretty, but are able to hide more that way.

Isn’t it sad that we cannot look at the truth in all its glory, that we always look for a way to dress it up to make it less painful. Seen a picture that had the words on it; “The naked truth is always better than the smart dressed  lies’. Pretty, don’t you think.
The way to look at things is laid bare right here. No hiding, no prejudice and no way to discriminate. But maybe a little fun won’t hurt anyone.

Yes the naked truth men, take a look at that naked truth. We all look in the mirror thinking we look great or want more muscle. Wondering where are manhood went. Well I think that the ugly looking worm sometimes called a third leg is a part of that. If It is true God created us as his equal than why give us that ugly piece of hanging flesh. When naked, it takes center stage. And it is laughed at or looked at in awe. Straight as an arrow or crooked like a banana covered in blood pumping veins and a bag with nuts dangling somewhere under all that or hiding somewhere in the bush ashamed of its appearance. But everything else, all of sudden doesn’t matter so much. The naked truth?

The Naked Truth – Golden Earring

Woman now that is a different story. Now I cannot say what they think standing in front of a mirror, that i can only guess. But i can say what i think. And the thought alone is enough to drive a man crazy. Yes i love woman in all their gory, no need in hiding that. Talking truthfully here anyways. But lets focus here. The naked body of the woman, it is so different from a man, it makes you wonder why god gave them all the beautiful parts. The voluptuous bodies with the artistic curves, the pretty ways of hiding the sensitive spots. If God existed it makes you wonder if Adam was just a trial version and Eve a work of art.

That is just one way of seeing things and sorry ladies for being so flesh orientated. I know it is not the way you want to be looked at. But the female body is something men do fantasize about. And I do love seeing a female body.

But now how is this. And this brings us back in to the news that is going around again. The naked truth is that if everyone was naked their is no way of telling what sexual preferences you have. The truth is there is no judgment when we are all naked. A pretty side about it if you ask me. No prejudice. No lies. Every human being the same. with nothing to be ashamed of.
The body is a temple for the heart and soul. And it does want to be free. Unbound from the norm. What ever the norm may be, because it is nothing more than a bunch of lies hiding what is underneath.

It is called a human, a heart and soul that should always promote the naked truth.

Best wishes
Ranting Crow

If God does not exist then it must have been a cruel evolution.

Aren’t we all homo’s?

Be proud of being yourself

That sure got your attention, just that title, Now it could be out of curiosity or out of anger, both is good to me I cannot tell you what your opinion should be. It is the biggest news at the moment across the world. We have the haters , lovers and the people who are not sure. well maybe this post will make you think again about many things. And have you make your own conclusion. Get this straight though that what ever side you choose, the people we are talking about are still like you and me, humans, With a heart and soul, respect them as such, as them being humans. I can not  emphasize it enough.

Now this is written by me, a guy who sexual wise tried it once and can say it is not for me. But being Dutch does make me very open minded about a lot of things. Do not get me wrong, just like in the world even here there is still discrimination towards the people who love the same sex. We once a year have the Gay pride where, both male and female homosexuals (find this a better word) party to the max going to the extreme. Yes male homosexuals dressing up just like in the movies, as big, dressed in leather and chains manly man. Or even walk around in a dress with so much pink it could hurt your eyes. But t is all good. It is about showing that they are people and like to have fun like you and me. A day later they are gone and dressed again like any other. So it is a day they can be frivolous.
There is also the pink Monday, another day we party with the homosexual community. On a carnival in Tilburg, which is the biggest in our country as well. One day every thing is colored pink and no matter what your sexuality is, it is a day to have fun.

Now i can hear some people reading this getting angry. But…
But what, would be my answer.

Oh, you are talking about the Bible, that it should be man and female being together. And being a homosexual is a disease.My answer, i dare you to keep this i mind at all times when ever this topic comes up in a conversation. Was it not Jezus himself who helped everyone, who even held hands with a leper. That is when you think it would be a disease. For the man woman. Never in the bible did I read it was a rule, second of which, in history we already know some books of the bible were deleted, who knows, maybe they did talk about it. Maria of Magdela appeared to be a whore as well. Yes I know never proven, but then again that is with every bit of text ever written, including the Bible. I know it also says, that you should not want your neighbors wife. But neighbor could be female and the addition is there to that you should not want your neighbors house, pets or even servants. And in time of Romans, of which the Bible also speaks it was common to have sex with servants be it woman or man. And last but not least. The Bible always talks about helping and caring fro another. LOVE thy Neighbor so to speak. See the words love. And the word neighbor, the one next to you in front of you or behind you. You preach that God sees us as equals and yet you condemn the people who love their neighbor, even though they are the same sex. Stop hiding behind a book. And start loving all that lives, like Jesus Christ himself did. Been 30 years since i last read it, but know this. Jesus never disliked anyone. Except those who were profiting from the temple.

We are not sure why people feel the way they feel. Some say it is genetic and has to do with upbringing. And some say it is something biological. I think it is the latter. Upbringing has nothing to do with it. And if you think it does then you also think it is wrong to respect and love all humans. Because an upbringing like that gives freedom to follow your own heart.

Now about the title of the post. Aren’t we all homo’s? Well if you came this far to still wanting to know, I applaud you for being open minded and willing to learn so that you can make a decision on the matter.
So the answer is basically a compilation of language and science and even history.
What does homo mean or even gay, where were those words created and how. Well some might already know the answer. First up Gay: Meaning “being carefree” or “happy” Maybe Frivolous would work as well. Only later we started associating it with homosexuality. That is why I prefer to use homosexual.
Next would be Homo: Now in Greek it means “the same” and in Latin it means “man” or “human being” How ever you want to look at it, it makes sense. We are all the same, we are all human. The most common use of the word homo or a the combination with the word is, “Homo sapiens”. Yes again talking about humans the modern kind.. The first to walk on two legs was even called “Homo erectus” and no i am not being funny.

Then there is the matter of people bing grossed out seeing two men  French kiss. Mind you they think it is okay if two women would do it. And if a men and woman do it, it is normal. isn’t that discrimination. I find it gross to watch a man and woman giving tongue as well. We all think it s normal to show love and appreciation. Then stop being a prude and have men give men a kiss as well. Okay, no tongue, but that goes for all combinations for me. Speaking of kisses. Isn’t or wasn’t it normal for Russians and Arabic men to give a kiss on the cheeks as a greeting?

Now for the conclusion. For me it is simple. They are humans, people like you and me. With one difference. They love everyone and are he ones who, i believe, have the most respect for humans, being just that, humans. The are the least likely to judge on preferences or ideals. They won’t speak evil, hatred or lie about their neighbor.
So lets stop the hatred, the discrimination. They deserve respect like you and me for being humans first.

There you have it, my opinion.

Best wishes
Ranting Crow